How to Reconcile Spirituality and Sexuality. By Mandy Wilson Mee Lin Woon I remember the first time someone told me I was going to hell—it was my reflection glaring at me from the bathroom mirror, reeling from my first lesbian kiss. The stinging words scrolled through my year-old mind on continual loop.
Beliefs and attitudes about sexuality are not innate, but rather acquired as a person grows and matures; factors that influence sexuality include: Religion plays a large role in shaping attitudes about sexuality as some religions prescribe acceptable sexual behavior.
Many find that they are not able to accept such religious doctrine in light of the changes society is experiencing. Religious doctrine often resists change, and some religions like Catholicism have changed very little despite the enormous changes that people have experienced in their lives. This essay examines the intersection of sexuality and religion and the resultant attitudes adopted by different religions.
This essay also discusses how sexuality and religion became linked prior to Christianity and beyond. The sociological aspects of sexuality are examined, including: Acceptance of different definitions of sexuality, religiosity, and sexual guilt.
Finally, this essay examines the changing attitudes toward sexuality in the modern Catholic, Jewish and Islamic faiths. Keywords Evangelical; Human Sexuality; Religious Institutions; Secularization; Sexual Expression Sex, Gender Overview Sexual relations were never free of religious or economic regulations, but as the complexity of our culture increased, social conventions began to place restrictions on sexuality Weber, Human sexuality can be defined as the way that a person views himself or herself as a sexual being through sexual preferences and actions.
Scholarly research about male and female sexuality has focused on two different aspects of influence: According to sociologists Deb Tolman and Lisa Diamond, "neither a purely biological or purely sociocultural approach can encompass the complexity of sexual desire While biology is the overriding influence in determining sexuality, the essentialist theory acknowledges that social and historical influences also play a role, but a secondary one.
The social constructionist theory attributes gender differences in sexuality to the cultural and psychosocial processes that act upon individuals and prescribe appropriate male and female sexual feelings and behaviors.
Tolman and Diamond state, "our entire experience of sexuality can be viewed as a context and culture-specific story that we come to live… [but] the sociocultural forces that shape our subjective experience of sexuality are largely invisible to us" This essay investigates the role that different religions have played in shaping human sexuality within social and historical contexts.
Christianity Sexual Abstinence Sociologist Gail Hawkes describes herself as a sociologist of sexuality who looks at history as a way of translating current complexities into our modern lives. In her essay "The Problem of Pleasure and the Making of Sexual Sin in Early Christianity," Hawkes reviews some of the influences that early Christianity has contributed to our socially constructed ideas about the sexual body.
benjaminpohle.com Zernus Productions This film explores the struggle that Christians have reconciling sexuality and spirituality. We get into the head, heart and lives of the people who have found this issue in this culture at this time as their self-defining work. Although the essays lack uniform emotional intensity, there is surprisingly no bitterness (not even from an unfrocked Mormon bishop), but there is much thirst for reconciliation in this stellar gathering of revelations about the divine agape that unites all men of good will regardless of their sexual orientation. SEXUALITY, SPIRITUALITY AND COUNSELLING Key figures from theology, psychology and philosophy that have worked towards reconciling sexuality and spirituality I 8 Reflective Essay words Discuss and apply the major themes of the unit to personal and professional development.
Max Weber, a noted 19th century sociologist wrote widely about the social influences of religion on different aspects of society. Weber suggests that Christianity exhibits an "anti-erotic religiosity.
Abstinence was a highly regarded and extraordinary type of behavior which could be used for the "magical coercion of God" Weber, Priestly celibacy was encouraged so that those holding church offices clergy would not lag behind the "supremely chaste" monks Weber, Sexual abstinence was seen as a central and indispensable means of salvation and was achieved through contemplative withdrawal from the world.
Sexuality constituted the most powerful temptation which linked humans with animal nature. The temptation of the body required constant vigilance, an emphasis on alertness, and self control.
Whether the inhabitant or the observer, unmediated proximity to the sexual body as constructed by early Christianity ; assured a fall from grace — a surrender to the irresistible temptations of the flesh Hawkes,p.
Appealing to the Laity Sexual abstinence and self control were the two principals that were espoused by the Christian Church as the most certain path to righteous salvation.
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While these principals were practiced by clergy and monks, influencing the general population about sexuality was a more daunting task. Hawkes investigated the pre-Christian and early Christian attitudes toward human sexuality with a focus on how to "manage the problem of the body" Hawkes, In every sense, the body represented a danger to chastity; people need to "explicitly recognize the perils" associated with loss of control over the body.
The theme concerning women and their lack of self control over their sexuality is a common one in many religions, and will be discussed in more detail later in this essay. Selling the idea of complete chastity to the general populate was challenging for a couple of fairly obvious reasons.
First, sexual intercourse was necessary for procreation and continuance of the human race. Second, people who had sex knew that it was "overwhelmingly enjoyable" Hawkes, The Christian faith was effective in further raising anxiety levels by preaching the sex associated with pleasure was "bad" immoral sex.
Marriage The institution of marriage was one way that religions could place parameters around sexuality by defining marriage as a religious sacrament. The role of marriage, according to Weber, was to eliminate all free sexual relationships; legitimization of marriage was a way to encourage monogamy which was the "hallmark of the Christian community" Weber, Legally regulated marriage itself was regarded, not for its erotic value, but as an economic institution for the production and rearing of children.
While many espoused a "direct religious obligation to beget children, the Judaic and Islamic faiths were also able to acknowledge that procreation aside: Sex as Sin A growing Christian population posed challenges about how best to manage sexuality on a large scale; the answer proved to be more of the same control.
Penance for sins, especially those of a sexual nature became part of the religious doctrine and provided a healthy dose of public shame.Spiritual sex: Sexuality as a vehicle to spiritual growth Sexuality can be a vehicle into spirituality rather than an obstacle to it.
One way to express your desire to be reunited with God is by merging with another person through sharing your sexuality.
The Material Nature of Spirituality It was observed from the 'time to think' experiments done in Biology lab, that thinking is material. Thinking was associated with material changes and activities in the brain and the connected nervous system.
How to Reconcile Spirituality and Sexuality.
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Sexuality is defined as the way that an individual perceives him or herself as a sexual being as expressed through sexual attitudes and desires. The basic nature of sexual desire and the forms in.